It's hard enough getting over a breakup. But when you're getting over a guy who cheated, it's even tougher. Discovering that your boyfriend has cheated on you can be one of the worst emotional pains imaginable. Use this guide to help move on with your life.its never to late to love.
1. Arrange to meet with him face to face. Text messaging, by letter, email, or over the phone breakups never are clear. Be absolutely sure he is cheating on you. Tell him what you feel. Talk it out, no matter how long it takes. There is no other way you can develop a sense of closure.
2. Look in the mirror.Tell yourself you are beautiful and smart, and that the cheater does not deserve you. They aren't worthy of your time, energy, or thoughts. They cheated because they weren't secure enough in themselves.
3. Go out with your friends. Do something for the first time. Distract yourself from the pain. It will hurt for a while, but it does not need to consume you.
4. Indulge yourself. Treat yourself to a spa or getaway, or pamper yourself at home. Eat some of your favorite chocolate. Get a manicure. Whatever makes you feel better.
5. Promise yourself you'll learn from your mistakes. Look back on any warning signs or red flags that you ignored that would show he was cheating. Vow to not be fooled again and to look more carefully for a guy who cares enough to be faithful.
6. Don't get jaded. Just because one boyfriend cheated on you doesn't mean they all will.
7. Don't blame yourself, instead tell yourself that you are beautiful and he made the biggest mistake by losing you.
8. Let him go, and accept the fact that he cheated, if you keep him it's possible he may go back cheating.
9. Smile and live life to the fullest.
10. Don't close your heart, just be careful around guys but give it a try one more time when you are sure that another guy is truly sincere.
11. Make yourself feel hot--whatever that means for you. You know if he sees you he'll totally regret cheating on you and know how much of an idiot he is!
